It's fair to say my exploration of hypnosis as a tool for physical and emotional well being is a mid-life crisis.
About five years ago I entered a new phase in life personally and professionally, and realized I needed to act on a long-standing interest I harbored in alternative approaches to health. I reasoned, "If not now...when?"
I have also come to recognize hypnosis can serve as a vehicle to help me pursue another long-standing desire -- comedy entertainment.
Yes, I gave straight stand-up comedy a shot and completely bombed. In fact, I got booed off stage at a free open mic performance. It was quite humbling.
With my "Hypnotic Experience" show I have developed a unique approach that combines an informative and educational discussion about the power of hypnosis with good fun and entertainment. My recent performance at
Georgetown University was a success and I have gigs lined up this month at the
Bradley Farm Haunted Mansion festival and at an event sponsored by
Professionals in the City.
Life phases are real and meaningful. My wife has been incredibly supportive of my endeavors and I think at some level is thankful I decided not to buy a sports car and get hair plugs. That would have been too cliche.
I've been thinking a lot about life phases since meeting an exceptional young woman yesterday. She too is in a phase as she transitions to young adulthood, and deals with issues related to career goals, life aspirations and redefined relationships with family and peers.
She also happens to be a truly gifted and creative writer who has the unique ability to emotionally connect with a reader. I encourage you to block out 15 minutes to click through and read the blog post I have included below. It's a wonderfully intense experience and captures the emotional toll a life phase has on a person -- both good and bad.
The writing is a bit too much stream of consciousness and the paragraph structure is raw. That will evolve and mature in time. Talent is talent though and good heavens does this woman have it.
I introduced her to hypnosis yesterday and suggested that it could be a tool to help her effectively channel her creativity into meaningful outputs (i.e. poetry, short stories, screenplays, song writing, etc.). I hope she explores this further with me.
Follow Your Intuition
Excerpt
I was unable to see how my mother’s relationship with her own mother
affected and influenced the way that she interacted with me for so long.
I had mistakenly thought that she was un-nurturing, not wanting me in
her life. I internalized that and began to believe that I was incapable
of being a nurturing person and genuinely loving something or someone. I
couldn’t even bring myself to say the words that my best friend and
boyfriend of 4 years needed to hear so that he knew how I felt. I was
selfish and stubborn, and I resented my
mom for
not showering me with the “I love you’s” that everyone else had. I
blamed her for my own ruined relationship…and I ran away from home for a
number of years because I believed that the easy was the best thing for
me.