For 18 years I have been fortunate to be married to a wonderful woman. In no way do I present myself as an expert in the construct of a successful union. In fact, women – my wife in particular – are often a complete mystery.
Yet, in nearly two decades of marriage I have come
to recognize important foundation points for a husband:
--Be respectful
--Be consistent
--Be prepared for the highs and the lows
--Cherish every moment
--Recognize happy wife = happy life
I practice self-hypnosis to be more caring and
considerate (i.e. less self-centered), as well as to promote overall health and
wellness. Interestingly, my wife has
never expressed an interest, preferring to invest her time in more intense
cardio work-outs.
However, I have been reading quite a bit lately
about how hypnotists have helped couples sustain their marriage through visualization. Here is a link to an article published by the
Daily Mail entitled, Can
Hypnosis Improve Your Love Life?
I incorporate an approach similar when I entertain
at a high
school after prom or all night graduation party, or a community
festival.
While under hypnosis, I suggest to the volunteer
that when they open their eyes they will see a friend, date or family
member. They’ll immediately realize how
much that person cares for them and how much they care for that person, and
that their bond is deep.
The result is typically a warm and positive moment
for the volunteer.
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| Happy wife = happy life |
